Mar 21

Last Novem­ber, I answered a call for essays from the daily news­pa­per of the metro area near­est us (Fargo, ND / Moor­head, MN). The topic was “What Makes Your Small Town Spe­cial.” The Forum writer at the helm of this ini­tia­tive is pick­ing her favorite essays and vis­it­ing the towns rep­re­sented, result­ing in a peri­odic series that gets read­ers (vir­tu­ally, any­way) out beyond Fargo-Moorhead to learn about some of the vital com­mu­ni­ties nearby.

Vital? Yes, vital! While some small towns appear to be dying, cer­tainly, oth­ers still have a lot to brag about and are younger in terms of median age than you might expect (Hen­drum, for exam­ple, has a median age of 37!). We were delighted by yesterday’s all-day visit by The Forum’s Car­rie Sny­der. She really went above and beyond in terms of her gen­er­ous gift of time and inter­est, many inter­views con­ducted, and more pho­tos taken than she’ll ever be able to share in print! The city lead­ers and res­i­dents thank her!

The Hen­drum story is slated for Mon­day, March 25; I’ll keep you posted. In the mean­time, here is my essay that gar­nered us such attention:

Above: Hen­drum City Post Office

What Makes My Small Town Spe­cial: Hen­drum, Minnesota

by Heidi Mann, sub­mit­ted Novem­ber 25, 2012

My hus­band Greg and I grew up in East Grand Forks and Moor­head, then lived in sim­i­lar cities through­out young adult­hood, never enter­tain­ing – or desir­ing – a small-town life. Until sum­mer 2002, when I was invited to inter­view for a posi­tion in Hen­drum, Minn., pop­u­la­tion then: 350… maybe.

We would learn a month later of the church’s deci­sion to call me as pas­tor, but the very evening of the inter­view, as we were escorted down the street – not the side­walk; the street! – to view the par­son­age, we were sold on this lit­tle town. “It’s so quiet!” we exclaimed, head­ing home to more heav­ily traf­ficked and pop­u­lated Fargo.

I served Hendrum’s Immanuel Church for seven years. In 2009, when my new free­lance busi­ness could have been set up any­where, and Greg could have worked in his employer’s Moor­head office as eas­ily as in Hen­drum, still, we stayed. We had fallen in love with a com­mu­nity where most peo­ple know most oth­ers, the small school sys­tem and the charms of small-town life.

Like the time shortly after mov­ing here, when some­one returned Greg’s cell phone before he knew it was miss­ing, hav­ing rec­og­nized it as his by just the first name on its screen. Or the time Greg had a col­lege exam in Moor­head but found our car had a flat; our next-door neigh­bor imme­di­ately offered a lift, and before I could call the local mechanic, I saw him in our dri­ve­way, exam­in­ing the tire. “How’d you know?” I asked. “Oh, Jim told me when he came for cof­fee” – Jim: another good neigh­bor who had noticed Greg’s dilemma. In a small town, word trav­els fast – usu­ally for the good!

We’ve also been charmed by local busi­ness­peo­ple who know our kids by name and look out for them. Nowa­days it’s price­less to feel secure let­ting a child walk alone a few blocks to the bank or hair salon. Sure, I call ahead – “He’s anx­ious to deposit his gift money, but I can’t get away; would you please show him how his pass­book works?” “He wants to walk alone. I’ll send a check along for the hair­cut; please call when he heads home” – but it allows our sons to branch out while stay­ing safe.

We love Nor­man County West School – small enough for teach­ers and staff, regard­less of posi­tion, to know all the kids, regard­less of grade; where one who doesn’t quite qual­ify for an IEP is still on the radar of con­cerned special-ed teach­ers; where senior cit­i­zens whose grand­chil­dren are grown still attend games, con­certs and plays to lend sup­port; where tech­nol­ogy is a pri­or­ity – Smart­Boards and iPads used in all class­rooms; and where aca­d­e­mic achieve­ment has earned NCW sev­eral des­ig­na­tions among Minnesota’s top schools.

I could tell of the quaint post office, the church, the police­man and vol­un­teer fire­fight­ers our kids know per­son­ally, towns­peo­ple turn­ing out to sand­bag together against floods. And of course it’s not per­fect; no town is. But we still call Hen­drum “home”… because, in short, we’re still in love.

Aug 2

I had never been inter­viewed on the radio prior to July 12, but now I can add that unique expe­ri­ence to the list of inter­est­ing things I’ve got­ten to do as a free­lance edi­tor and writer. The pro­gram “Rain­bow Radio” inter­viewed me as a rep­re­sen­ta­tive of the e-magazine “10,000 Cou­ples,” for which I serve as Asso­ciate Edi­tor, and the inter­view aired July 15. To lis­ten, click the tri­an­gle “but­ton” above.

Turns out, being inter­viewed on “Rain­bow Radio” placed me in very good com­pany: The very next episode, July 22, fea­tured for­mer Olympic gold-medal diver Greg Louga­nis! (Click the link <— at left to hear this inter­view.) Not that I got to talk with Greg, or even be on air on the same date, but still! It’s about as close as I’ve ever come to celebrity! (Well, along with inter­view­ing and copy­edit­ing a book for pres­i­den­tial can­di­date Fred Karger; and the school where one of my clients teaches being fea­tured on “60 Min­utes”; and the fact that, every month, I get to work with the amaz­ing Shelly Gold­stein on her reg­u­lar, fea­tured col­umn in “10,000 Cou­ples” — Shelly, who has writ­ten com­edy that has aired on HBO, who knows many celebri­ties per­son­ally, and who has writ­ten some of the fun­ni­est song par­o­dies I’ve ever heard to help peo­ple take a look at seri­ous issues of injustice.)

So, yeah… this copy­edit­ing, proof­read­ing, and writ­ing gig is a lot of fun!!

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Please answer one of these ques­tions in a com­ment below:

1. What’s the clos­est you’ve come to a brush with celebrity?

2. Lis­ten to either inter­view above and let us know what you thought of it.

Thanks for chim­ing in!

Aug 1

The fol­low­ing arti­cle, writ­ten by “yours truly,” is fea­tured in the August issue of “10,000 Same-Sex Cou­ples eMagazine”:

Some­one You MUST Know: Dan McLel­lan, Founder of Homoquotables

By Heidi Mann, Asso­ciate Edi­tor   Wed, Aug 01, 2012

Mile­stones have marked Dan McLellan’s life. His greet­ing cards cel­e­brate mile­stones in the life of a card-giver’s gay or les­bian friend, fam­ily mem­ber, or lover.

Someone You MUST Know: Dan McLellan, Founder of Homoquotables

Pic­tured: Dan McLel­lan (l.) and hus­band Michael Jones

With society’s grow­ing open­ness to LGBT cou­ples and mar­riage equal­ity, one might think it would be easy to find a birth­day or anniver­sary card for a gay or les­bian indi­vid­ual. But that wasn’t the case when Dan McLel­lan went card-shopping for his part­ner, Michael. So, about two years ago, Dan set about chang­ing that, and in May 2012, Homo­quota­bles was born.

Homo­quota­bles began as Dan’s “his-and-his greet­ing card” busi­ness, and has grown quickly to offer cards for les­bians as well, along with mugs, t-shirts, and more. Any of Dan’s black-and-white photo designs, sev­eral of which are pic­tured here, can be cus­tomized with a quote befit­ting a birth­day, com­mit­ment cer­e­mony, wed­ding, anniver­sary, or other mile­stone in the life of a gay friend, fam­ily mem­ber, or part­ner. … Please go here, to “10,000 Cou­ples,” to read the rest of this article.

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What I found absolutely poignant and lovely in Dan’s story was the sup­port he still has from his for­mer wife, Kay, who now even plays a cru­cial role in his busi­ness! That has got to be the ulti­mate in accep­tance of someone’s homo­sex­u­al­ity — a spouse who loves his or her wife or hus­band so much and so well that he or she chooses to let the indi­vid­ual go, at least from the mar­riage, to live into her or his full self­hood. WOW!

So, what do you think? Please leave a com­ment below about lov­ing and let­ting go in this fash­ion, and/or visit Dan’s web­site (Homo­quota­bles) and tell us here which of his greeting-card designs is your favorite.

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